After the last post I wrote, I got a chance to meet the demons head on. I went out on a “date” with Rura. I would hardly call it that.
Let’s just say that the feelings of inadequacy are pretty much gone now. All those unanswered questions have been pretty much answered. I love him, no doubt about that, but moving on is the best damn thing for both of us. We have our own shit to work out right now. I definitely need to get my act together and so does he. I’m pretty sure that we CAN be friends and I’m very sure that I’m ok with that.
I just wanted to clerify the situation and say thanks to all of you that left me comments or sent me emails. Seriously, I love you all. Even those of you who have trouble putting your feelings into words. *cough* I appreciate all of you and especially those of you who cheer me on, day after day.
Moving on….
Guess who asked me to come back to her pad and do a little guest posting?
The one and only VDog! I love this woman. She’s hysterical. And she knows what it means to deal with being so damn good looking 24/7.
So come check out my post. It’s about an escaped convict I have living in my house.
Peace out homies! Much love. *double chest bump**peace sign*
itsjustmiss(at)hotmail(dot)com
You’ll do fine. I promise.
By: jessie on October 1, 2008
at 4:06 pm
Hugs honey for realizing that it’s best to move on.
*double chest bump**peace sign*
By: OHmommy on October 1, 2008
at 4:50 pm
So very happy that you found the closure you needed. *HUGS*
By: Red Lotus Mama on October 1, 2008
at 5:35 pm
Ah, so glad to hear. Sounds like you’ll do a fine job .
*hugs*
I’m off to read about your escaped convict!
By: Momisodes on October 1, 2008
at 6:10 pm
I’m glad that you got closure, and if you can stay friends that’s really cool too. That’s something I never really got with my ex oh-so-many lifetimes ago … which is probably why I think he’d be a stalker if I ever let him friend me on Facebook.
Paranoid, I know
By: Karen meg on October 1, 2008
at 6:15 pm
Wow that must have been hard to do. Cheers to you for having the balls to confront your demons (and not socking him in the head).
By: skiplovey on October 1, 2008
at 8:20 pm
I’m happy for you, ’cause you’re all awesome and stuff.
By: Honeybell on October 1, 2008
at 11:12 pm
Keep your head up… um… a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step… nope… hmmm… it’s only fun and games until… scratch that… don’t cross your eyes or they’ll stay… shit.
ROCK ON. Yeah, that’s the ticket.
By: BusyDad on October 2, 2008
at 4:26 am
Off to check out your post right now!
By: Don Mills Diva on October 2, 2008
at 8:32 pm
Well, glad to hear you got some things worked out. Loved your guest post – guess I found my way to that one first!
By: Colleen - Mommy Always Wins on October 4, 2008
at 2:19 am
ah, closure that clever and elusive little bitch. Glad you nailed her!
Peace out and hugs.
By: zdoodlebub on October 5, 2008
at 8:01 pm
I’m glad you have your answers, and I’m glad you aren’t willing to compromise what makes you happy.
Besides, I didn’t want to share you with him, anyways.
By: Ashley on October 5, 2008
at 8:46 pm
Closure is key .. sometimes.. but it appears to worked out for you and for that I can say yippeee!!!!
Off to check out your guest post!! xoxo
By: Kim on October 7, 2008
at 2:54 am
You are the most awesome girl EVAH!!!
Loves to you, my friend. I felt a big blogging hug from you that day!! Heck, most every day I get a virtual hug from you!!
*fist bump**peace out*
By: VDog on October 7, 2008
at 8:54 pm